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About Deb / Being Aunt Debbie

Single, disabled mother of 2 adult children and grandmother to 7 beautiful grandchildren! I love Medieval History, castles, all things Celtic. I love animals, rock music, Mexican food, writing, learning, and good movies. I love to crochet!

Sarcasm Here, Eye Roll There

Here’s a little quote I shared on social media this morning:

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After I read the quote, I reread it. Then I realized that me being ‘nice’ about things when someone continually pushed my buttons and pissed me off, got me nowhere. Instead of calling that person out, and for the sake of being nice, I let it fester inside until it had nowhere to go except OUT! When it did come out, it was a little at a time. Sarcasm here, eye roll there. A little dig here and a little dig there.

In the end, there I was finding out that I was being judged all along by someone who didn’t have their shit together any better than I did! So, if I have to be a bitch now to protect my inner peace, you bet that’s what I will be!

Amid financial woes, health issues, and the daily stresses of life, I still feel more at peace now. I’m a good person, but that doesn’t mean that I have to be nice all the time! No more build-up of frustration and feeling unworthy. People can judge me based on their perception of my disability, or my life but I don’t have to be nice about it!

Honey Buckets, Quonset Huts, and Desegregation – A Few Memories of A Korean War Veteran

Dad is a Veteran of the Korean War, 1950-1953. He and his buddy joined the military together, thinking they would be stationed in the same branch but it didn’t work out that way. Dad wanted to get in on the G.I. Bill so he could continue his education after his duty ended. He always wanted to be a pilot but they wouldn’t let him in the Air Force because of some reason or another. It may have been the fact that he is missing a couple of toes on his right foot that could affect his balance. His buddy was declared too short to be a pilot. I can vouch for that fact, as I knew him as I was growing up. He was just a little over 5′ feet tall. Anyway, Dad ended up in the Army and his buddy some other branch. 

 

This was Dad’s High School Graduation photo, right before he joined the US Army and was shipped off to Korea.

Dad shared with me a few memories of his days in Korea. I’ll try to write them here as best I can. His memories are a little blurred in some cases. 

 

Dad never saw combat. I’m thankful for that. He may have a completely different personality and/or outlook today if he had experienced combat. They put him in the engineering department. One of the duties he might see was building or repairing a bridge. The sergeant in charge learned very quickly to NOT let my Dad do any of the sawing! To this day he can’t saw a straight line, even with a guide of some kind! Dad laughs at this memory every time! He said the sergeant was heard yelling, “Don’t give Davenport a saw!” 

The weather in Korea was extreme, from freezing cold snowy winters and miserably hot and humid summers. Many veterans suffered extremity injuries due to the extreme cold. 

When Dad wasn’t in the field, he sometimes worked in the kitchen peeling potatoes, washing dishes, wiping tables, cooking, etc. He said he’d rather pull KP than other duties because even though it was hard work, it was nothing compared to being out building bridges in the heat or being on guard duty during the night when it was below freezing. There were also a few perks that came with KP like extra food if there were leftovers.

His mother, my grandmother, once sent him a cake (from California to Korea) and by the time he got it, it was hard as a rock. What was she thinking? 

Dad bought his mom a set of China as a gift and it actually shipped all the way from Korea to California without being broken. Dad acquired the set when his mother passed away years ago. A few pieces are missing but it’s still a beautiful set.

Dad’s unit bunked in a Quonset hut. The men took turns standing guard and Dad remembers being so tired that he would fall asleep standing up. In the winter, he couldn’t even feel his feet. The men had to make sure they kept their feet dry.

In the camp, they used what they called honey buckets for human waste. He said camp smelled just awful. When it came time to empty the “honey buckets” some guys would have to go down in the hole (knee-high) and scoop the waste out with buckets and then the buckets would be hauled up to be dumped elsewhere. Dad said the Koreans used it to fertilize their crops. 

Dad said he and a few of his buddies from his unit used to pay a nice Korean man to take their laundry. The man’s wife would do the laundry including ironing and the man would return with the laundry. I always think about that poor Korean woman who got stuck doing all that laundry for a few measly bucks and if her husband actually shared it with her. 

Dad smoked back then, as did so many. The men used to trade cigarettes for chocolate and vice-versa. If they needed something and they had cigarettes or chocolate, they could easily trade. 

The Korean War was the first to enlist whites and blacks together. No segregation! Dad said that didn’t stop the racism, which was evident everywhere. When Dad went on leave to Sol, he went with some buddies, a few of whom were black. They all wore their uniforms because bars and other establishments were happy to let our soldiers in. But if you were black, forget it. Even with a military uniform, blacks were not allowed into white establishments. Dad said many times he and his buddies told owners, “If all of us can’t come in then NONE of us are coming in.” Those establishments lost a lot of business. Dad and his buddies went to black bars instead. They were all welcomed there. 

Some Korean War Veterans have memories of death and killing. Thankfully, my Veteran Dad does not. 

Friday’s Funnies – My Faves This Week – September 20, 2024

It is the 20th, yes? I can’t keep track half the time! I hope your week has gone smoothly. The past month or so has gone very peacefully for me, with the exception of the flat tire incident.

This week’s collection is bit smaller than normal, but that’s how the cookie crumbles. I hope you get a few chuckles!

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I think my fave is the one about the cockroach! Do you have a favorite?

I apologize for the lack of funnies this week. I guess I wasn’t online as much as usual so I didn’t get as many saved. There’s always next Friday!

Have a superb weekend, friends!

aunt-debbie

Not A Swiftie

I’m not a fan of Taylor Swift’s music. Actually, I wouldn’t know her music if it were playing on the radio. 

I don’t know why so many people are on the hate wagon where Swift is concerned. Some are pissed because she’s at her boyfriend’s football games, supporting him, and God forbid the cameras are on her and she’s being seen by millions of people cheering him on! Oh God, the nerve. Ridiculous! Some are pissed because she endorsed Kamala Harris for President. So freaking what?! She has the right to support any candidate she wants, just like the rest of us. Before you get your panties in a knot, she did NOT tell her fans to vote for Harris. She merely urged them to register to vote and to VOTE. Frankly, I’m glad she did publicly endorse Harris. Why leave any doubt after the orange moron implied that she endorsed him?  

Taylor Swift is a great role model for young girls…and all of us, truth be told. Whether we’re a fan or not, she has won 324 awards! When she was sexually assaulted she sued for just $1 and it took 2 years to win that case but she didn’t back down! She donates mass amounts of money to food banks in every city she performs. She has donated to schools and libraries, not just in the US but around the world. She donated $1 million to aid in disaster relief. She has donated to aid in the eradication of poaching, and nature conservation. She donated to a foundation for survivors of sexual assault. She donated a sizable amount to a pet rescue foundation. She has a generous heart, giving to people everywhere. Google it. If you don’t want to Google it, read here instead. 

It’s been said before, but every time you speak ill her…of any woman, your daughters hear you. Your nieces and nephews hear you. Your SONS hear you. Is this what you want the children in your life to hear? Do you want them to hear the disrespectful and hateful comments that you spew? Don’t teach your daughters that it’s ok for them to be disrespected like that. Don’t teach your sons that it’s ok for them to disrespect women. 

Let’s all step up and be better humans. It’s about time, don’t you think? 

The Memory of A Bridge Too Far

Back in 1977, I was a mere 15 years old. I took my Dad to the movie theater to see a war movie called A Bridge Too Far. I never liked war movies, and I still don’t care that much for them. Dad and I watched this movie on DVD last Friday night. It was still a good movie, all 3 hours of it. With an all-star cast and great production, it kept my attention. Not just Friday night, but all those years ago when I was just 15 years old! This really isn’t about the movie, though. It’s about the memory of seeing it with my Dad.

For all these years, I thought we saw the movie with the original Jaws, but after Googling Jaws, I learned that there were 2 years between the movies. I asked Dad about it and he said he remembered us going to the movies twice; first to see Jaws and then a second time to see A Bridge Too Far. Now, his short-term memory sucks but he does have good long-term memory so I have to trust his memory vs. mine. 

I think I had more fun in the theater with my Dad than I ever did with my mom. I took Mom to see Jaws, too. Of course, she drove because in 1975 I was only 13. She laughed during the movie (sadistically, I might add) and seemed like she couldn’t wait to get home. I never went with her again! 

Dad was a different story. He has always loved a good war movie. As a kid, he and his friends used to go to the movies. It cost just a few measly cents to get into the theater back then. Oh, the stories he used to tell about those days! He was happy to see a good war movie, even with his daughter. We had popcorn and soda, everything my treat. I spent my hard-earned babysitting money! It was a good memory. Just me and Dad. 

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A Bridge Too Far / 1977 / Starring Sean Connery, Michael Caine, Anthony Hopkins, Robert Redford, James Caan, Ryan O’Neal, Gene Hackman, Lawrence Olivier, Elliott Gould, Maximilian Schell, Ben Cross, and more.