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About Deb / Being Aunt Debbie

Single, disabled mother of 2 adult children and grandmother to 7 beautiful grandchildren! I love Medieval History, castles, all things Celtic. I love animals, rock music, Mexican food, writing, learning, and good movies. I love to crochet!

He Who Has Spoken…and Spoken…and Spoken…and Spoken…

“When someone shows you who they are, believe them the first time,” often attributed to Maya Angelou, meaning that when someone reveals their true nature or character, trust that this is who they really are and don’t try to ignore or excuse their behavior.

So, why are there not enough people listening to what Donald Trump is telling us?

Think about this for a minute. Donald Trump has told us exactly what he plans to do if he wins this election.

He said that this would be the last election if he wins. What the hell does that mean? Is he going to do away with elections in this country? Will we never be able to vote again? That’s concerning, isn’t it?

He said he will jail his political opponents. He said he’s going to revoke the broadcast licenses of media outlets that oppose him. So, will he also jail anyone who opposes him?

He wants to reimpose his travel ban to keep people from Muslim countries from entering the US. This would ban “dangerous lunatics, haters, bigots, and maniacs” and that’s hilarious, considering it’s a pretty accurate description of Trump, himself!

He will end transgender rights. He wants to cut funding to hospitals and health care providers to prevent care for those transgender people. Surely everyone in this country has a family member or knows someone or knows of someone who is transgender. So, imagine someone you care about losing their rights to gender-affirming surgery, treatment, or therapies.

He wants to terminate the Department of Education. He says under his administration, kids will be taught to love their country and not to hate it as they are being taught now. On the surface, that sounds nice, doesn’t it? It sounds to me like he wants to dictate what is being taught. Which is hilarious, considering he doesn’t know a damn thing about anything! Until he submits his school grades, I will stick to my opinion of him, which is that he doesn’t know his ass from a hole in the ground! In a game of “Are You Smarter Than A 5th Grader,” he would freakin’ lose his ass.

He says police should be empowered to shoot suspected shoplifters in the act. Keyword: suspected. Whatever happened to “innocent until proven guilty”?

He is fixated on those he believes have wronged him. He wants to use the military against people he claims are the “enemy within;” The Department of Justice, Adam Schiff, Nancy Pelosi, journalists, CBS News, and the list goes on. Do you honestly think he will stop there? What makes you think that he won’t eventually go after YOU? Eventually, power will go to his head, (even more than it is already) and he will come after those of us who have something to say about him, against him, or about something he has done.

When will we stop and realize, actually understand, what he is telling us? He’s definitely not a good person. Why would you vote for someone who has demonstrated time and time again that they are not a good person?

Anyone who calls certain countries “shithole countries” is not a good person.

Anyone who calls this country “the garbage can for the world” is not a good person.

Someone who tells us and shows us repeatedly what they think about poor people, people of color, women, science, LGBTQ+ people, disabled people, etc., is not a good person.

Someone who calls people names, harasses and intimidates people is not a good person.

Someone who lies about everything is not a good person.

Why would you vote for someone who is not a good person?

I think, and this is my speculation, that half if not more of those who are supporting Trump, will do so for one or more of the following reasons:

  1. They do not want a woman to be President,
  2. They do not a person of color to be President, or
  3.  They do not want a Democrat to be President.

I say, COUNTRY over party for crying out loud. At least Kamala Harris is trying to unite us and is working for all of us. We may not agree with everything she says, but she is a much better choice than Donald Trump could ever be!

We will be in deep shit if Trump is elected again. Dictatorship. Plain and simple. Mark my words.

The Night Dad Scared The H*ll out of Me

It’s getting to be too much for both of us. Getting groceries, that is. I always place a curbside order once a week. I try to limit items to no more than 20. It never fails I end up with more than 20 because one of us forgot we needed toilet paper or paper towels or something else.

Dad and I pick up the order, which is the easy part. (Good grief, I hope Walmart never discontinues this service!) When we get home, I load bags of groceries into a utility cart. Heavier items go on the bottom, of course. Dad pulls the cart up the ramp and into the house. The problem is, we still have some heavy items like water and kitty litter. I use our lunch cart for those items; I bring the cart to the door and Dad carries those items to the door and puts them on the cart. It’s not far because I pull right up to the ramp. When all is unloaded, I tell Dad to go change his clothes so he can sit and rest. I unload the groceries from the utility cart and put things away.

Dad changed his clothes and sat down in his chair to rest. He was exhausted and went to sleep. He fell asleep off and on for the rest of the day. Later, he watched a movie or something on the Firestick. I was in the kitchen doing a puzzle, listening to an audiobook.

When it crept closer to 10pm, which is his bedtime, I knew he had fallen asleep because he was so quiet. Normally, I hear him cough, laugh, talk to one of the cats, or more often than not, drop something like the remote. He falls asleep in his chair all the time so I didn’t think twice about it…until it was 10:15 and he was still not even getting ready for bed. Usually, he gets ready for bed around 9:45.

I went to check on him and there he was fast asleep. I saw his chest rising and falling but he was out like a light! I called out to him to tell him what time it was. He didn’t wake up. I called out louder and still, he didn’t wake up. I sat down in my chair to give the furbabies their Temptations snacks, as per our normal routine. Trust me, they were all sitting by my chair waiting. They knew it was past time! 

I kept trying to wake Dad, getting louder and still, nothing. Finally, I touched his hand and tried again to wake him. He just would not wake up! I shook his arm; still nothing. I shook harder and finally, thank God, he woke up! He scared me to death. I thought I had lost him. I just cried in a huge wave of relief. He had no idea what was going on. 

I dread the day I have to say goodbye to this man who has truly been there for me my entire life. He is closer to a best friend than I’ve ever had in my life. (Even closer than the best friend I actually had, who come to find out, was judging me all along.) He has helped me raise my kids when their father couldn’t be bothered to write to them. We have shared many things, including finances and health issues.

Losing Dad will be the biggest loss I will ever face. 

Friday’s Funnies – My Faves This Week – October 4, 2024

I can’t believe how quickly this week went by! Considering how rotten the week has been for my Dad and I, I thought the week would have drug by like molasses during a snowstorm! Hmmm… Anyway, I tried getting this post out this morning, but I was having problems with my internet being extremely slow and WordPress seemed to be having issues as well. I couldn’t upload any of my funnies so I gave up until now. Things are working ok at the moment.

I hope you enjoy this week’s funnies. It’s not a huge collection but it’s not tiny either! Have a great evening and let me know in the comments what you think about this week’s funnies! Enjoy!

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Do you have a favorite or maybe two favorites? I think my two faves are Stranger Convo and You Can See Me? I like the age-old Bear Question, also!

I hope you’ve had a good week and your weekend is even better! Thank goodness the weather is cooling down! Once winter sets in, at least the bugs and spiders go back from whence they came!

See you later!

aunt-debbie

SNAFU

When it rains, it pours. My Granny used to say, “If it ain’t one thing, it’s something else.” That pretty much nails it.

Yesterday morning, I dropped my laptop. It was in the padded case I carry it in, but apparently, it hit just right and hard enough on the kitchen floor to whack the corner. It didn’t seem like it hit very hard, but now when I open it, the lower right corner pulls away from the screen. The laptop still works but I have to leave it open for fear of making matters worse. I can’t afford to buy a new one or have someone repair it. Geez. I just purchased it June of 2023 so it’s virtually new.

This morning, Dad went to take our trash up to the dumpster. The damn car won’t start. I had to cancel my curbside order. I may have to cancel my vet appointment for Alice’s checkup tomorrow afternoon. We have AAA but Dad’s so damn stubborn. Instead, he decided to try to charge the battery himself with his handy battery charger. I hadn’t heard anything in a little while so I went outside to check on him. He was standing by the car with the hood up and charger in his hand, just thinking. He said it wasn’t going to work because the charger won’t plug into the extension cord. I saw right away what the problem was. He had the male end of the extension cord in his hand and the charger cord was also male. I told him he needed the female end of the extension cord to plug the charger into. I switched that up for him and then it worked. Poor old guy. He thinks everything will be so simple but he just can’t think through the process so it ends up being a big hassle. Anyway, the car is charging. We’ll see what happens. 

If that’s not bad enough, Dad has put us in a potentially critical financial conundrum. I guess that would actually be worse than any of the other problems we have going on right now. Dad’s a wreck about the whole thing and I’m pretty damn stressed out, too. When the solution or end of the situation has arrived, I will write more about it. Until then, please wish us luck! 

Well, that’s all for now. I’m headed to the shower. With any luck, I’ll make it out of there alive. 

aunt-debbie

Friday’s Funnies – My Faves This Week September 27, 2024

Wow! I can’t believe how quickly this week has gone! Poof. Just like that! I feel like I missed something. I know I missed a few days worth of blog posts but I tried! I hope you’ve all had a good week.

I hope you enjoy this week’s funnies. I’m going to try and get these out to you before the storm hits – no, not the hurricane. I’m in SW Missouri and we’re in for a bit of a storm today but thank goodness nothing like my Floridian friends are experiencing. I hope everyone has found safe shelter until the hurricane has passed. Anyway, on with this week’s collection! Enjoy!

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Ok, for the first time (I think!) I am unable to choose a favorite…or even a couple faves. There are so many here that made me laugh. Can you pick a favorite? Good luck!

I hope you enjoyed this week’s funnies! Have a super weekend, friends! Stay safe and dry!

Hugs to all,

aunt-debbie