Progress and Hope

I mentioned previously that we finally have hope to finish the new house. Today will be Day Two of work on the deck/porch. Fingers crossed it will be finished by day’s end. Handyman seems to know what he’s doing. When that is completed, I’ll be able to go up the ramp, enter the house, and give direction as to where I want electrical outlets and things like that. It has been years since I was able to go in that house! I will be posting photos as things progress.

I am cautiously optimistic about this whole process. I can’t help but think about my ex who was all talk and no workie. And I don’t mean that he talked too much instead of working, as my DIL thought I meant. What I mean is that my ex always talked big about doing this and that but he never did what he said he would do. I’m praying that Handyman does what he says he will do.

It will be nice not to worry about the leaky roof, the sagging floors, or cracked walls. Not to mention all the cracks and crevices in this old house that allow all kinds of bugs and spiders in. I’m envisioning us in the new house. I’m thinking positively now that there’s a little light at the end of the tunnel. Another positive note is that my youngest sister has shown interest in coming to live with us so she can help me with the cleaning and cooking and looking after Dad. I just don’t know how much longer I can do it on my own.

Please cross your fingers, or pray, whatever you do….that we will be in our new house this time next year or sooner! And in case you don’t know, I appreciate that you take the time to read my blog!

Until next time,

aunt-debbie

5 thoughts on “Progress and Hope

  1. Oh my friend, I’m so happy that things seem to be moving along! I know that you have been wanting to get the heck out of the old house and now it looks like you just might spend the next Christmas in there after all. I’m so psyched for you and dad, can’t wait to hear more updates on the progress. I’m praying for sis, that things start to look up for you, dad and the entire pack. I’m also glad to hear that your sister is considering moving in with you to help with dad, that’s awesome and it will take some of the pressure off of you in doing everything you do for dad.

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    • My daughter has offered to get a sitter for the little ones so she and her hubby can come help us move when the time comes, which will make things easier for my sister to move here as she doesn’t drive. Now maybe, if timed right, one can drive a uhaul for my sister while the other follows behind with sis and her 3 packs of cats…oh my. 3 more. Holy crap. Jack will not be a happy camper. I’ll keep you posted!

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  2. That is great news… especially that your sister may come help take care of your dad! Caregiving can be so draining; it comes with good rewards too, but it is hard work. Here’s hoping it all comes together for you!

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